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No one has their sh*t together really!

I don’t know about you, but sometimes the picture of perfection splashed across social media is intimidating… there have been so many times when I’ve seen something and it’s made me question myself, because when you look around it feels like other people have their sh*t together.

I do not have my shi*t together, I know it might look like I have from the outside, but trust me – I don’t.

My life and business are crazy, chaotic and messy – it’s just the way I am.

Most of the time I feel totally overwhelmed and confused about something or other and I spend a large part of my time feeling like I’m standing at the bottom of a huge mountain, wondering how on earth I’m going to get up it.

For me, this is what standing outside my comfort zone feels like. I think most of us feel like this too… but we just don’t ever SHOW it.

So I made this video, without tidying up the mess. I know that the physical mess is only a tiny thing, but the real message I want to share is this:

It’s ok that things aren’t perfect, that you feel overwhelmed, crazy and intimidated… you can still create massive success. In fact, I believe that it’s a sign that you’re already doing it, because you wouldn’t have those feelings if you weren’t already being pushed outside of your comfort zone – and that’s the place where magic happens.

Enjoy the video and if you want to join me for more conversations around this topic and for my tips for how to make sure you don’t hold yourself back, sign up for my free workshop I’m hosting next week (it’s online and live, so I’ll be there to answer your questions too!)

You can find out more here >>

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